Not all kinky folk who spank have a desire to discipline, but many do, and those I’ve admired above the rest have all shared this...

My spanko soul has been pondering implements of late. “What’s there to ponder?” one might ask. “They’re just lifeless objects used for...

I loathe that rapey marmalade shitbag with a passion, but there is ONE context in which thinking about him makes me smile: that time he...

A few days ago, a spanko friend (who, in case she’s reading this, is an EXTREMELY naughty brat, by the way,) introduced a game that’s...

Note: All names have been changed or omitted to protect everyone’s privacy. A year or so ago, there was a brief period where I considered...

(This pic has nothing to do with anything. I just think it's rad.) Warning: This post contains adorable penis pics. If you wish not to...

SPANKISH: learning Spanish through talking about spanking I remember one day in Spanish class during my first year of college in...

I'm sorry for this, Adam. Truly, I am. Anyone who knows me and sees this will laugh and roll their eyes. “This again.” I am not at all...

Photo credit: The Illustrious Namio Harukawa. RIP, you pervy genius. There's this guy on Fetlife who lives about 45 mins from my place....

While I’d love to go through life believing all spankos are awesome, responsible, trustworthy folks, it is simply not the case. Not all...