Sweet Tea7 min readWhat Do Spankos Have in Common with Other Fetishists?It can be very hard to understand a fetish you don’t have. When I talk to non-spankos about all this stuff, I’m met with a variety of...
Sweet Tea3 min readAn Ode to My Favorite Spanking ArtistsI’ve always adored spanking art. In many ways, I like it better than real porn. Art allows us to marinate on emotion-filled snapshots of...
Sweet Tea2 min readHow to Say ‘Spanking’ in 4 Foreign LanguagesHave a seat, spankos. School is in session. Spanking is a worldwide sexual phenomenon. In the U.S., the word usually refers to hand...
Sweet Tea8 min read20 Things Spanking Fetishists Have in CommonSpankos are soulmates. The fetish hardwires our hearts and minds in remarkably consistent ways that aren’t usually apparent to others, so...
Sweet Tea5 min readDear Submissives: Know Your WorthI had a recent Fetlife experience that had me scratching my head and going, “Huh, that’s fuckity.” This is par for the course on Fet, as...