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30 Ways to Brat Your Spanker and Drive Them Totally Nuts (Subscribers Only)
Many of us bratty types like provoking our tops into spanking us. It’s so fun watching steam come out of their ears as they decide we’ve crossed the line, which we very much do on purpose. Their faces get all serious and they tell us we’re gonna be sorry and personally, I cannot help but snicker in response. That shit’s hilarious. Looks a lot like this. ^ For bratting to be a sustainable part of a kinky dynamic, it must be fun for everyone involved. Some tops genuinely can’t

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5 Fuckboy Myths About Women Who Like Getting Spanked
A still from the 1911 Danish film 'Carl Alstrup ved Skomagerlæsten' ('The Happy Shoemaker'). The word 'fuckboy' is a modern term that...

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12 Ways to Meet Spanking Partners (Subscribers Only)
When we daydream about finding new spanking partners to play with, we want it to be easy. We want our perfectly compatible spanko soulmate to pop up out of nowhere like that masked serial killer in Scream . Boo! I don’t know if y’all remember this movie, but it was a whole-ass mood. (Okay, maybe not quite like that.) My point is that finding great spanking partners is not easy, which I imagine I don’t need to tell you. This is especially true if you’re set on linking up with

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The Spankee’s Paradox
“Do you want me to spank you?” Oh yes, friend, please do. It’s my favorite thing. Here’s my butt: 🍑 But also no. No! Stay back, you...

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3 min read


18 Steamy Date Ideas for Spankos (Subscribers Only)
Source: https://www.flickr.com/photos/vpagnier/13262760153/ If you’re lucky enough to have found another spanko to play with, you might be fishing for ideas on how to spend the rare moments when you’re not at home smacking butts. Gotta go out for air and sunlight occasionally! This world offers us endless opportunities to maximize mischief with our kinky partners in crime. Here are 18 date ideas that will both strengthen your bond and inspire you to rush home so you can get

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8 min read


Eureka! The Joys of Antiquing for Spanko Swag
They say blondes have more fun (and by “they” I mean Rod Stewart on his 9th studio album from 1978). Certain activities, however, are...

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16 Tips to Help You Write Great Spanking Erotica
Image credit to Ostra Studios We spanking fetishists are connoisseurs of fantasy. Thoughts of red bare bottoms, discipline, and steamy...

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7 min read


There’s No Crying in Baseball (But There Is Lots of Spanking)
As a baseball fan, it truly astounds me that people don’t talk about this more. The quote-unquote “pats” sporty types exchange with their...

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Boobies and Butts Both Belong
So I’m a chick, you see, and having figured this out, the YouTube serves me ads for bras on a frequent basis. My TV is covered in...

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Writing Mom and Pop: An Interview with Spanko Author R. T. Denom
It’s not every day that I get to chat with other erotica writers, especially those who focus solely on our favorite thing. There is one,...

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