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Sweet Tea
4 min read
The Setting of a Spanking
The setting of a spanking holds immense symbolism for fetishists. As the act involves degrees of embarrassment and vulnerability, the...
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Sweet Tea
7 min read
What Do Spankos Have in Common with Other Fetishists?
It can be very hard to understand a fetish you don’t have. When I talk to non-spankos about all this stuff, I’m met with a variety of...
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Sweet Tea
3 min read
An Ode to My Favorite Spanking Artists
I’ve always adored spanking art. In many ways, I like it better than real porn. Art allows us to marinate on emotion-filled snapshots of...
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Sweet Tea
2 min read
How to Say ‘Spanking’ in 4 Foreign Languages
Have a seat, spankos. School is in session. Spanking is a worldwide sexual phenomenon. In the U.S., the word usually refers to hand...
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Sweet Tea
8 min read
20 Things Spanking Fetishists Have in Common
Spankos are soulmates. The fetish hardwires our hearts and minds in remarkably consistent ways that aren’t usually apparent to others, so...
7,664 views


Sweet Tea
5 min read
Dear Submissives: Know Your Worth
I had a recent Fetlife experience that had me scratching my head and going, “Huh, that’s fuckity.” This is par for the course on Fet, as...
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