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I Need to Talk about Adam Driver
I'm sorry for this, Adam. Truly, I am. Anyone who knows me and sees this will laugh and roll their eyes. “This again.” I am not at all...

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2 min read


My Friend the Seat
Photo credit: The Illustrious Namio Harukawa. RIP, you pervy genius. There's this guy on Fetlife who lives about 45 mins from my place....

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4 min read


The 10 Commandments of an Ethical Spanko
While I’d love to go through life believing all spankos are awesome, responsible, trustworthy folks, it is simply not the case. Not all...

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7 min read


The Setting of a Spanking
The setting of a spanking holds immense symbolism for fetishists. As the act involves degrees of embarrassment and vulnerability, the...

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4 min read


What Do Spankos Have in Common with Other Fetishists?
It can be very hard to understand a fetish you don’t have. When I talk to non-spankos about all this stuff, I’m met with a variety of...

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7 min read


An Ode to My Favorite Spanking Artists
I’ve always adored spanking art. In many ways, I like it better than real porn. Art allows us to marinate on emotion-filled snapshots of...

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3 min read


How to Say ‘Spanking’ in 4 Foreign Languages
Have a seat, spankos. School is in session. Spanking is a worldwide sexual phenomenon. In the U.S., the word usually refers to hand...

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2 min read


20 Things Spanking Fetishists Have in Common
Spankos are soulmates. The fetish hardwires our hearts and minds in remarkably consistent ways that aren’t usually apparent to others, so...

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8 min read
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